Key #1: Appreciate: Don’t Decimate
The world is full ofnegativepeople. It is not hard to find faults in people. For some people the glass is always half empty .. for the others it is half full!
Pessimistic people discourage others by constantCRITICISMandFAULT FINDING.
Right from Sports persons to famous people, no one in public eye is spared from theSCANNERof Criticism.
Newspapers and talk shows also feature people who ridicule, find mistakes and criticise people.
People are quick to throw stones at others while ignoring their own major personality flaws and perceive themselves as perfect.
Hence, a majorBUILDING BLOCKfor relationships isAPPRECIATION.
APPRECIATION is recognising the GOOD that is in your partner and the good done by your partner and being Vocal about it.
It is not hidden secret admiration, but one that is openly expressed.
“You did well”
“The food was good today”
“Congratulations on your achievement”
“You are looking good in this outfit.”
APPRECIATION has a very encouraging effect on the other person and it builds their confidence.
APPRECIATION is a way of saying THANK YOU for your efforts and help.
What Appreciation is not:
FLATTERY: Flattery is based on lies and falsehood. If is not based on facts. Often it is used to promote a hidden agenda.
There is Exageration in flattery. It destroys relationships as the other person is believing a lie that can cause them to take wrong decisions.
People like to be around those who APPRECIATE.. Appreciate and you will have Success in relationships.
APPRECIATE YOUR PARENTS! APPRECIATE YOUR TEACHERS! APPRECIATE your Family!
Many have SOWED in your life.. Remember them, Send them a Gift!
Appreciating someone shows them that you VALUE them for who they are and what they did for you and you don’t take them for granted.
Relationship Key # 1 Don’t look for MISTAKES to FIND but Speak words that are KIND.
As a mark of APPRECIATION, THANK YOU FOR READING THIS PAGE!
APPRECIATE YOUR PARTNER AND SEE THE DIFFERENCE…
APPRECIATION is recognising the GOOD that is in your partner and the good done by your partner and being Vocal about it. Appreciation strenthens marriages.
APPRECIATION has a very encouraging effect on the other person and it builds their confidence.
APPRECIATION is a way of saying THANK YOU for your efforts and help.